“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
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How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.
And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.
Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.
So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.
1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others Continue reading
I wonder why that happens, families are created, everything seems normal, but suddenly it turns out that the daughter-in-law hard headed husband does not allow her grandchildren to communicate with her mother in law, and even tells the kids that this grandmother a stranger to them?
Of course, I exaggerate a little, but still, a lot of similar situations. So, want to talk about the problems of education, advised me to Sofia in the comments on the article “How to behave with her mother in law” .
All relationship problems from a lack of education
We are all women, simultaneously, daughters, mothers, daughters-in-law, mother-in-law or mother-in-law and many others. one of the shortcomings of education. And these shortcomings manifest themselves at any age, at any stage of life. About the problems of education is very well written in the blog “Love the environment” .
Then there are problems in the relationship with her husband, children, parents or in-law. And then someone getting sick from such relations. How to help everyone, I don’t know, although sometimes I think that would create a magic pill, which all would be well. But this does not happen and therefore, need to change their life, and most importantly, attitude to life and the situation in which you find yourself.
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