Some will immediately say “over”, referring to the fact that computer games contribute to the development of the child. However, “developing character” computer games — just another myth. That develop these games? Reaction speed, attention? Yes. And what does this have to the goals of education? Of course, if we reduce education to the development of mental processes, then the computer quite this helps. Then don’t grumble, if the output corresponding to “product” with the developed reaction rate. If the goal of education is understood as cultivating spiritual maturity, what does the rate of reaction?
It is, of course, not about the dangers of computer which is really necessary in our lives. No, we are talking about the abuse, about the transformation tool, technical tools in the subject of dependency and addiction.
Dependence on any subject of passion (especially from PC) is called additive syndrome. I will not dwell on clinical cases of computer addiction (blurred vision, General physical development, dystonia). Incidentally, the famous Continue reading
Proper upbringing of the child boy is based on the peculiarities of its development, other than development of girls. It is necessary to consider the parents, as this will depend much later in life your son. It is very important to educate boys
In its development the boys go through three basic stages.
The first stage covers the period from birth to 6 years of age: the age at which the boy is the most developed psychological connection with her mother. This “her” boy, even if the father’s role in a child’s life is also high. Aim of education in this period is a big boy love and a feeling of complete security.
The second stage lasts from 6 to 14 years. During this period, the boy learns to be a man, eyeing father, to his interests and actions. The goal of education in this period: an increase of knowledge, development of creative abilities. We should not forget about the kindness and sincerity – that is, try to cultivate a harmonious personality.
In the third period – from 14 to adulthood – the boy needed an example of male teachers. Parents go by the wayside, but they should provide a worthy son of a mentor to his seat incompetent peer. The purpose of education at this stage is to teach responsibility and self-respect, actively pulling the teenager into adulthood. The main criteria in the selection of teachers Continue reading
“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
How dysfunctional relationship between husband and wife affect Continue reading