Many young mothers are faced with the same problem. They are away from baby Cribs, to prepare Breakfast. to freshen up, clean the apartment, both from the nursery starts to reach a disgruntled whimper. Soon the discontent go into a silent cry, which then develop into unrestrained scream. How to respond to such discontent kid? How to handle it? How to stop being nervous and rid the child from such unrestrained weeping?
Our mothers and grandmothers rather philosophically treated like cry baby. They believed that if the baby cries, it means he is developing. During the Creek are actively developing lungs. Consequently, when the training of the internal organs is over, your baby will stop crying.
However, modern medicine puts forward other hypotheses. Today it is considered, if the child is crying, so he asks you for help, so he feels uncomfortable. As psychologists say. Parents need to respond to every cry baby. Don’t be afraid to spoil your child. Up to one year to spoil it impossible. You will either develop his confidence in his own defense, or create a field around the baby fear, when he will understand that in the moment of danger to him no one would answer. If you are attentive parents, then over time you will Continue reading
Recently progress has leaped forward. Created and used complex devices, infinitely surpassing the achievements of the recent past. But why is not observed the same ubiquitous and tangible progress in the education of children, based on clear laws and principles? Most likely, because raising children is a difficult matter that requires special knowledge. And apply them it is necessary not when children begin to use drugs, steal, and then, when the children are “across the benches lie”. Scripture advises: “train up a child in the way that it does not disgrace you in the future.” Education of children in the chastening and admonition of the Lord – a guarantee that the child will grow up well-adjusted person, leading a righteous life.
With questions about parenting, we turned to the pastor of the Church “Bethany” Gorbunov A. G.
Whether raising children, to apply a method of intimidation? Or better to achieve results by explaining?
– Of course, impossible to intimidate. To understand this question, we need to figure out the value of two of the following words: to intimidate and warn. To intimidate means to put fear, to be afraid, to embarrass threat. To prevent means to say beforehand, Continue reading
The subject of child theft is known by many parents. This problem usually relates to “shameful” and allow her sometimes under force not to everyone. If you learned that the child was stolen, do not rush to shout, to scold and punish! And even if the theft of your son or daughter like a thunder in a clear sky, still do not give in to emotions. In this situation it is important to do so not just to resolve the situation, and to find its cause and prevent negative actions in the future.
Stealing or kleptomania?
Many parents, having caught a child stealing, start to panic: the child is a thief and should be treated!
Let’s clarify the terminology. Child stealing and kleptomania have their similarities, but still, it’s very different concepts. If the child is brought from kindergarten someone else’s toy or pulled from dad’s wallet a few bucks, it’s not a reason for hospitalization.
Kleptomania – mental disorder, morbid desire to steal, is very rare and almost exclusively in adults.
So if you caught your child stealing, do not rush to carry him to the doctors. Try to find the reasons for this situation.
Why do children steal?
To understand the cause and identify the motive of the negative behavior of the child, you need to consider his age. If small children are stealing from ignorance “own” and “alien”, then teenagers, Continue reading