What most often nursing mother thinks when she hears the cry of a newborn baby? Most likely, this: “Poor thing, he is hungry!” And running towards him, eager to satisfy this first instinctive need of a little helpless creatures. It was thousands of years before us, is and always will be.
Unfortunately, not always the modern woman turns to feed the baby to the full, say, “excellent”. For example, a typical situation. A baby crying almost non-stop, before feeding restless and near the breast naughty. And his mom told that the child eats breast milk. In fact, the mother is basically saying: “Your child is still hungry, you need to urgently seek to solve something”. But how so? Why the child does not have enough milk? Got any mother’s heart falter.
And starts the inevitable: the search for the causes of half-starved children living-being, feelings of guilt and self-torture. And the conclusion, most often, mom does like this: “I’m a bad nurse, my Breasts are “non-dairy”, the kid need to save is an urgent need to Supplement with formula or even to feed from a bottle!”
Now this happens very often. And it’s a shame that mothers easier to believe in the word of so-called “experts”, to stop breast feeding and put the baby to feed from a nipple. And what would be better in this case? Only, the mother – to pull myself Continue reading
She’s wrong, I grew up on computer games since 7 years, and still play. Mental all right, friends and family don’t complain))) Live in a happy marriage, attitude to life is positive, in General I full happy people and don’t remember periods in my life, that game to me than it prevented. On the contrary, in his childhood when friends walked through the basement and learned to smoke, their society, I wasn’t interested and it seemed mundane. Computer games are good and a very common hobby in the modern world and for the past generation new, strange and not clear, like all unknown. To deny it or to prevent the child from playing just because smart aunt (which the game never played and not familiar with this phenomenon) said, it’s stupid, anyway, if the child shows interest in games, he’s come to love will find a way where, what and with whom to play. Do not judge strictly this phenomenon, there is nothing terrible, this is the modern world and this is absolutely normal, Continue reading
How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.
And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.
Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.
So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.
1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others Continue reading