Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading
Many young mothers are faced with the same problem. They are away from baby Cribs, to prepare Breakfast. to freshen up, clean the apartment, both from the nursery starts to reach a disgruntled whimper. Soon the discontent go into a silent cry, which then develop into unrestrained scream. How to respond to such discontent kid? How to handle it? How to stop being nervous and rid the child from such unrestrained weeping?
Our mothers and grandmothers rather philosophically treated like cry baby. They believed that if the baby cries, it means he is developing. During the Creek are actively developing lungs. Consequently, when the training of the internal organs is over, your baby will stop crying.
However, modern medicine puts forward other hypotheses. Today it is considered, if the child is crying, so he asks you for help, so he feels uncomfortable. As psychologists say. Parents need to respond to every cry baby. Don’t be afraid to spoil your child. Up to one year to spoil it impossible. You will either develop his confidence in his own defense, or create a field around the baby fear, when he will understand that in the moment of danger to him no one would answer. If you are attentive parents, then over time you will Continue reading
How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.
And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.
Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.
So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.
1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others Continue reading