What most often nursing mother thinks when she hears the cry of a newborn baby? Most likely, this: “Poor thing, he is hungry!” And running towards him, eager to satisfy this first instinctive need of a little helpless creatures. It was thousands of years before us, is and always will be.
Unfortunately, not always the modern woman turns to feed the baby to the full, say, “excellent”. For example, a typical situation. A baby crying almost non-stop, before feeding restless and near the breast naughty. And his mom told that the child eats breast milk. In fact, the mother is basically saying: “Your child is still hungry, you need to urgently seek to solve something”. But how so? Why the child does not have enough milk? Got any mother’s heart falter.
And starts the inevitable: the search for the causes of half-starved children living-being, feelings of guilt and self-torture. And the conclusion, most often, mom does like this: “I’m a bad nurse, my Breasts are “non-dairy”, the kid need to save is an urgent need to Supplement with formula or even to feed from a bottle!”
Now this happens very often. And it’s a shame that mothers easier to believe in the word of so-called “experts”, to stop breast feeding and put the baby to feed from a nipple. And what would be better in this case? Only, the mother – to pull myself Continue reading
She’s wrong, I grew up on computer games since 7 years, and still play. Mental all right, friends and family don’t complain))) Live in a happy marriage, attitude to life is positive, in General I full happy people and don’t remember periods in my life, that game to me than it prevented. On the contrary, in his childhood when friends walked through the basement and learned to smoke, their society, I wasn’t interested and it seemed mundane. Computer games are good and a very common hobby in the modern world and for the past generation new, strange and not clear, like all unknown. To deny it or to prevent the child from playing just because smart aunt (which the game never played and not familiar with this phenomenon) said, it’s stupid, anyway, if the child shows interest in games, he’s come to love will find a way where, what and with whom to play. Do not judge strictly this phenomenon, there is nothing terrible, this is the modern world and this is absolutely normal, Continue reading
Probably all the parents to tell the child there and mess, this is typical of young children. At the same time they need in an orderly world, and you have them help. For starters trace, how many flats toddler loves to play and equip a children’s corner. In every house there are a gathering place for all family members because it is necessary for the child in the living room or kitchen to create their own space. But this is not to say that we need toys to fill up all the living room, the game should only occur on a limited for kid space. Let it be a table and chair, adults are nearby and the child feels among adults comfortably, although engaged in the business.
The child grows, and thus his self-esteem grows, he realizes that his presence is important for adults, but these are the corners around the apartment a real salvation for parents. If desired, you can create such an area in the house no one – it sports with Swedish ladder and rings, building with blocks and designer of cookware in the kitchen. While mom is preparing to eat, the child with pleasure will be engaged in preparing food for dolls. Could be a reading area with a child seat floor lamp and a book shelf, where after watching the baby books they’ll deliver.
Special attention should be given to the area for creativity.