What most often nursing mother thinks when she hears the cry of a newborn baby? Most likely, this: “Poor thing, he is hungry!” And running towards him, eager to satisfy this first instinctive need of a little helpless creatures. It was thousands of years before us, is and always will be.
Unfortunately, not always the modern woman turns to feed the baby to the full, say, “excellent”. For example, a typical situation. A baby crying almost non-stop, before feeding restless and near the breast naughty. And his mom told that the child eats breast milk. In fact, the mother is basically saying: “Your child is still hungry, you need to urgently seek to solve something”. But how so? Why the child does not have enough milk? Got any mother’s heart falter.
And starts the inevitable: the search for the causes of half-starved children living-being, feelings of guilt and self-torture. And the conclusion, most often, mom does like this: “I’m a bad nurse, my Breasts are “non-dairy”, the kid need to save is an urgent need to Supplement with formula or even to feed from a bottle!”
Now this happens very often. And it’s a shame that mothers easier to believe in the word of so-called “experts”, to stop breast feeding and put the baby to feed from a nipple. And what would be better in this case? Only, the mother – to pull myself Continue reading
Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading
Many young mothers are faced with the same problem. They are away from baby Cribs, to prepare Breakfast. to freshen up, clean the apartment, both from the nursery starts to reach a disgruntled whimper. Soon the discontent go into a silent cry, which then develop into unrestrained scream. How to respond to such discontent kid? How to handle it? How to stop being nervous and rid the child from such unrestrained weeping?
Our mothers and grandmothers rather philosophically treated like cry baby. They believed that if the baby cries, it means he is developing. During the Creek are actively developing lungs. Consequently, when the training of the internal organs is over, your baby will stop crying.
However, modern medicine puts forward other hypotheses. Today it is considered, if the child is crying, so he asks you for help, so he feels uncomfortable. As psychologists say. Parents need to respond to every cry baby. Don’t be afraid to spoil your child. Up to one year to spoil it impossible. You will either develop his confidence in his own defense, or create a field around the baby fear, when he will understand that in the moment of danger to him no one would answer. If you are attentive parents, then over time you will Continue reading