Usually in the mind of a parent separated from the love of discipline, as if they were two completely independent phenomena. These parents believe that discipline means punishment (some even spanking). The first thing we must realize to teach a child to be disciplined, to make him feel that you love him: this is the main and most important part of good discipline. If the child feels that the parents are standing behind him, he is really hard to identify with them and their values. If there is no strong, healthy communication with parents, the child responds to the dictates of parents with anger, hostility, resentment. He considers each request or requirement as imposed on him the duty and learns to actively resist. In the most severe cases, he viewed them with disgust, does everything out of spite, right the contrary. Only healthy, based on the unconditional love of parents and children can help to overcome all life’s crises. Another important aspect of appropriate love – the ability to carefully and intently listen to the child.
When a child is sure that you understand his feelings,thoughts, desires, he will be much more willing to respond to your discipline requirements.Nothing to the extent not irritating Continue reading
The origins of greed should be sought, primarily, in educational methods dads and moms. Let’s look at how we need to educate the greedy man that child became a kind person.
As growing children greed is a manifestation of the greed of the child at different stages of age
The unwillingness to share their toys, clothes and even food notice your kids many parents. Often mothers have to blush for their crumbs in the house or on the Playground when a small screaming meanie peers “will Not give!” and hides behind a shovel or a machine. Or hiding my toys from my brother (sister), categorically not wanting to share things even “not for long, just play”. What are the reasons?
1.5 to 3 years. At this age the concept of “own/alien” the baby has not yet formed. Because now the child belongs to the whole observable world.
2 years kid have consciously utters the word “mine!” and stop talking about yourself, your favorite, in the 3rd person. This means that began the first serious stage of psychological development of the child. Now he forms a picture of himself and begins to establish the boundaries separating the “ours” and “theirs”. The word “mine” from a child is a sign of personal space, including all that expensive baby. This is a natural process Continue reading