Proper upbringing of the child boy is based on the peculiarities of its development, other than development of girls. It is necessary to consider the parents, as this will depend much later in life your son. It is very important to educate boys
In its development the boys go through three basic stages.
The first stage covers the period from birth to 6 years of age: the age at which the boy is the most developed psychological connection with her mother. This “her” boy, even if the father’s role in a child’s life is also high. Aim of education in this period is a big boy love and a feeling of complete security.
The second stage lasts from 6 to 14 years. During this period, the boy learns to be a man, eyeing father, to his interests and actions. The goal of education in this period: an increase of knowledge, development of creative abilities. We should not forget about the kindness and sincerity – that is, try to cultivate a harmonious personality.
In the third period – from 14 to adulthood – the boy needed an example of male teachers. Parents go by the wayside, but they should provide a worthy son of a mentor to his seat incompetent peer. The purpose of education at this stage is to teach responsibility and self-respect, actively pulling the teenager into adulthood. The main criteria in the selection of teachers Continue reading
Usually in the mind of a parent separated from the love of discipline, as if they were two completely independent phenomena. These parents believe that discipline means punishment (some even spanking). The first thing we must realize to teach a child to be disciplined, to make him feel that you love him: this is the main and most important part of good discipline. If the child feels that the parents are standing behind him, he is really hard to identify with them and their values. If there is no strong, healthy communication with parents, the child responds to the dictates of parents with anger, hostility, resentment. He considers each request or requirement as imposed on him the duty and learns to actively resist. In the most severe cases, he viewed them with disgust, does everything out of spite, right the contrary. Only healthy, based on the unconditional love of parents and children can help to overcome all life’s crises. Another important aspect of appropriate love – the ability to carefully and intently listen to the child.
When a child is sure that you understand his feelings,thoughts, desires, he will be much more willing to respond to your discipline requirements.Nothing to the extent not irritating Continue reading
I’m 22 years old. I have a problem with my mom,she’s totally against my guy. It all started long ago, when she began to sit instead of me in the social. networks and to communicate with guys so looking for a suitable me what she thinks. Sent to meetings,to me these guys are by no means liked. And that’s just at the age of 21 I met a guy who now love. Mom asked him to read our correspondence with him, I refused, got angry. I went on a date with him, after which there was a scandal. In parallel I had to communicate with someone who she liked. This is a neighborhood guy, simple as she thinks but somehow rude, asking vulgar questions, I thought that he owes. Me as if cut to pieces, raped or morally,I don’t know how to describe it. I’m secretly Dating a guy for a long time. He wants to meet my mom knows the whole situation. But I can’t change anything. Mom set a condition, so I stopped with him at all to talk to, he’s not the one I need, impersonating another, she has a bad heart and every time refers that I want her dead and blame only me. Hooked a brother who is completely on her side. I can’t handle, don’t know what to do…I just really love, but I don’t give a…
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