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Computer games for kids

Some will immediately say “over”, referring to the fact that computer games contribute to the development of the child. However, “developing character” computer games — just another myth. That develop these games? Reaction speed, attention? Yes. And what does this have to the goals of education? Of course, if we reduce education to the development of mental processes, then the computer quite this helps. Then don’t grumble, if the output corresponding to “product” with the developed reaction rate. If the goal of education is understood as cultivating spiritual maturity, what does the rate of reaction?

It is, of course, not about the dangers of computer which is really necessary in our lives. No, we are talking about the abuse, about the transformation tool, technical tools in the subject of dependency and addiction.

Dependence on any subject of passion (especially from PC) is called additive syndrome. I will not dwell on clinical cases of computer addiction (blurred vision, General physical development, dystonia). Incidentally, the famous Continue reading

Hooray! Vacation! Than to occupy the child during the summer

Let’s call the four most common misconceptions regarding children’s activities and indicate how they can be remedied.

1. Some parents believe that the key to give the child complete freedom during the holidays and let your child of all: hanging out with friends, staying up all night to play computer games and watch cartoons. After this “rest” child may need additional rehabilitation at least in the form of fresh air and good sleep. So, parents need to take care of holidays to spend free time. Than desobranie the child, the more careful should be the plan. Help the child to relax consciously.

Only parents will be able to attach to their beautiful children from an early age. The child stretches from birth to beauty. Cleverly organized arts education helps children to learn more deeply the world around us. The best works of literature, painting, theatre, cinema, music broadens the mind of the child and help him to feel brighter and understand the beautiful in nature and society.

2. Some parents believe that a vacation can well be done at home. The most important thing to complete Continue reading

On child aggression

The child forms not only the environment, but also other days of the week…

Three-year-old daughter of my friend recently asked an interesting question: “Mom, what is a Viper?” “Advanced” mom, the teacher of geography, pricked “advanced” question curious Chad, found on the Internet pictures, videos, interesting facts on the biology of snakes, and began to tell the young off that pet shop Dame, who are the vipers. The answer was absolutely puzzled glance – something mom says. And in the evening, treating dolls from toy dishes, babe hard banged his hand on a small table: “come, be silent, Viper! Quickly eat!” Parents in horror looked at each other for a wee week in kindergarten and has already begun to adopt aggressive behavior “good” educator.

…Talking with a neighbor near the entrance. Her son, four-year-old toddler Vlad, running in the yard next. Enough plastic blocks, swings at my mom: “This is the bomb! Now I will throw, and you will scatter!” I pretend to not notice anything. Although it is strange that modern children even cubes, toy creation, building, turns into a weapon. And it gets worse. Vladka took the girl doll, broke down the doll’s leg and is about to throw in the fire, which here, in the yard, bred Continue reading

How to raise an independent daughter?
Our young children depend on us. The older they get, the greater become independent, if only we ourselves – in your own words and deeds – will not restrain this…

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The Harmonious upbringing of children.
Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the…

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The Causes of disobedience
Usually in the mind of a parent separated from the love of discipline, as if they were two completely independent phenomena. These parents believe that discipline means punishment (some even…

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