“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
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What words parents reported that they expect the baby? Of course, “WE’re pregnant”. The rest of the phrase does not sound so succinctly. For example, “My wife is expecting a child” implies that the child would only wife. What about a future Pope? Or, say, the woman reports: “I will baby”… the Question is the same: but the husband has the baby? Therefore, you will agree that not only mommy is waiting. Dad appears the heir, grandparents — loved grandchildren, older kids — the long-awaited little brother and sister.
A woman and a man — creating from different planets
This touching moment is when you found out I was pregnant. From this joyful news bursting, the person does not leave a broad smile and want to shout to the whole world. Wait, the whole world is still time to learn about it, but for now share your joy with the second member of a conspiracy, the future daddy. Isn’t it — that he has the full right first, after you, of course, be dedicated to this mystery. But note the reaction of your loved one will largely depend on the form in which you will present this information. Usually, men need time to understand what happened.
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I wonder why that happens, families are created, everything seems normal, but suddenly it turns out that the daughter-in-law hard headed husband does not allow her grandchildren to communicate with her mother in law, and even tells the kids that this grandmother a stranger to them?
Of course, I exaggerate a little, but still, a lot of similar situations. So, want to talk about the problems of education, advised me to Sofia in the comments on the article “How to behave with her mother in law” .
All relationship problems from a lack of education
We are all women, simultaneously, daughters, mothers, daughters-in-law, mother-in-law or mother-in-law and many others. one of the shortcomings of education. And these shortcomings manifest themselves at any age, at any stage of life. About the problems of education is very well written in the blog “Love the environment” .
Then there are problems in the relationship with her husband, children, parents or in-law. And then someone getting sick from such relations. How to help everyone, I don’t know, although sometimes I think that would create a magic pill, which all would be well. But this does not happen and therefore, need to change their life, and most importantly, attitude to life and the situation in which you find yourself.
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