How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.
And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.
Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.
So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.
1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others Continue reading
“The child and magic” by Maurice Ravel claimed as a children’s show. The event focused on the immediacy of perception. Of course, spontaneity is different for everyone, but at the heart of any spontaneity — not a preparation, but the involvement, lack of prejudice, but not total wildness. That is, the audience who came to the children’s Opera in theatre, at least, understands that the Opera is where they sing. We can say that this is the only condition for the direct perception of children’s melodramatic performance.
Now, if you try to directly perceive what showed the Bolshoi theatre, we get the following picture:
about an hour on the scene of animated objects and animals with insects bullying child
which is in the throes of puberty, overstimulation them hurt or offended. Torn books, broken cups, broken clock, torn Wallpaper, and even the injured squirrel scolding, name-calling, blaming, beat, trample and otherwise “snub” the poor teenager.
It is difficult to say how common in world literature educational motive of revenge things to his master, but in a Russian children’s classics enough to remember “the Fedora’s grief” by K. I. Chukovsky Continue reading
Let’s call the four most common misconceptions regarding children’s activities and indicate how they can be remedied.
1. Some parents believe that the key to give the child complete freedom during the holidays and let your child of all: hanging out with friends, staying up all night to play computer games and watch cartoons. After this “rest” child may need additional rehabilitation at least in the form of fresh air and good sleep. So, parents need to take care of holidays to spend free time. Than desobranie the child, the more careful should be the plan. Help the child to relax consciously.
Only parents will be able to attach to their beautiful children from an early age. The child stretches from birth to beauty. Cleverly organized arts education helps children to learn more deeply the world around us. The best works of literature, painting, theatre, cinema, music broadens the mind of the child and help him to feel brighter and understand the beautiful in nature and society.
2. Some parents believe that a vacation can well be done at home. The most important thing to complete Continue reading