What most often nursing mother thinks when she hears the cry of a newborn baby? Most likely, this: “Poor thing, he is hungry!” And running towards him, eager to satisfy this first instinctive need of a little helpless creatures. It was thousands of years before us, is and always will be.
Unfortunately, not always the modern woman turns to feed the baby to the full, say, “excellent”. For example, a typical situation. A baby crying almost non-stop, before feeding restless and near the breast naughty. And his mom told that the child eats breast milk. In fact, the mother is basically saying: “Your child is still hungry, you need to urgently seek to solve something”. But how so? Why the child does not have enough milk? Got any mother’s heart falter.
And starts the inevitable: the search for the causes of half-starved children living-being, feelings of guilt and self-torture. And the conclusion, most often, mom does like this: “I’m a bad nurse, my Breasts are “non-dairy”, the kid need to save is an urgent need to Supplement with formula or even to feed from a bottle!”
Now this happens very often. And it’s a shame that mothers easier to believe in the word of so-called “experts”, to stop breast feeding and put the baby to feed from a nipple. And what would be better in this case? Only, the mother – to pull myself Continue reading
At birth, the sex organs girls are still very “young”, but need close care. At an early age that caring for yourself should take mom. How she will take care of the genitals of their baby depends on whether her “baby” in turn to become a mother.
Babies skin is very delicate. The epidermis is vulnerable and any infection can create an inflammatory process. The same can be said about the lack of hygiene, especially hygiene genitals. Girls ‘ genitals are vulnerable not only externally but also internally. The mucosa of the genital organs in infants, which usually is designed to protect against the ingress of infection is still poorly developed.
In the first days after birth the girls can watch spotting. This is a normal process, as the girl left the mother’s hormones, which are displayed in this way. So panic should not be. Allocation pass in a few days. It is necessary, every two hours to change diapers and to observe the rules of hygiene.
The procedure of cleaning
Not in any case not to wash genitals girls in the bath. It is better to wash away child running with boiled water. You can use a moist cotton swabs for cleaning. Water the procedure should be performed after each diaper change. During caving mother should Continue reading
Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading