What most often nursing mother thinks when she hears the cry of a newborn baby? Most likely, this: “Poor thing, he is hungry!” And running towards him, eager to satisfy this first instinctive need of a little helpless creatures. It was thousands of years before us, is and always will be.
Unfortunately, not always the modern woman turns to feed the baby to the full, say, “excellent”. For example, a typical situation. A baby crying almost non-stop, before feeding restless and near the breast naughty. And his mom told that the child eats breast milk. In fact, the mother is basically saying: “Your child is still hungry, you need to urgently seek to solve something”. But how so? Why the child does not have enough milk? Got any mother’s heart falter.
And starts the inevitable: the search for the causes of half-starved children living-being, feelings of guilt and self-torture. And the conclusion, most often, mom does like this: “I’m a bad nurse, my Breasts are “non-dairy”, the kid need to save is an urgent need to Supplement with formula or even to feed from a bottle!”
Now this happens very often. And it’s a shame that mothers easier to believe in the word of so-called “experts”, to stop breast feeding and put the baby to feed from a nipple. And what would be better in this case? Only, the mother – to pull myself Continue reading
She’s wrong, I grew up on computer games since 7 years, and still play. Mental all right, friends and family don’t complain))) Live in a happy marriage, attitude to life is positive, in General I full happy people and don’t remember periods in my life, that game to me than it prevented. On the contrary, in his childhood when friends walked through the basement and learned to smoke, their society, I wasn’t interested and it seemed mundane. Computer games are good and a very common hobby in the modern world and for the past generation new, strange and not clear, like all unknown. To deny it or to prevent the child from playing just because smart aunt (which the game never played and not familiar with this phenomenon) said, it’s stupid, anyway, if the child shows interest in games, he’s come to love will find a way where, what and with whom to play. Do not judge strictly this phenomenon, there is nothing terrible, this is the modern world and this is absolutely normal, Continue reading
Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading