Some will immediately say “over”, referring to the fact that computer games contribute to the development of the child. However, “developing character” computer games — just another myth. That develop these games? Reaction speed, attention? Yes. And what does this have to the goals of education? Of course, if we reduce education to the development of mental processes, then the computer quite this helps. Then don’t grumble, if the output corresponding to “product” with the developed reaction rate. If the goal of education is understood as cultivating spiritual maturity, what does the rate of reaction?
It is, of course, not about the dangers of computer which is really necessary in our lives. No, we are talking about the abuse, about the transformation tool, technical tools in the subject of dependency and addiction.
Dependence on any subject of passion (especially from PC) is called additive syndrome. I will not dwell on clinical cases of computer addiction (blurred vision, General physical development, dystonia). Incidentally, the famous Continue reading
Music is an integral part of our lives. For centuries the mother sang a lullaby to the child, etc. Usually parents want their children listened to music, played it, but on the other hand, it is a natural desire begets in them a number of doubts. They are confident that their child will be able, for example, to learn to sing that he has musical talent. Music should be an integral part of human existence, including the life of a child. But on the way to this goal, there are certain difficulties: requires the presence of talent or at least the propensity for music, and a child should learn to enjoy music.
Interestingly, sometimes the child gets more pleasure from playing music of their peers than older professionals. The pleasure derived from music is perceived not only aurally and emotionally, but also muscular.
Currently there are many ways to practice music and to get pleasure from listening to it that don’t require much money or much time.
The child responds to music and he makes musical sounds. He makes rhythmic movements to the beat of the sounds of a refrigerator or a washing machine. Young children often free to experiment with sound, as with everything else that they can see, taste and touch. Continue reading
“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
How dysfunctional relationship between husband and wife affect Continue reading