Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading
Multiple pregnancy is a special state for each woman. But in nature it occurs everywhere, is not something out of the ordinary and well studied by scientists. Therefore, it is very to worry about it not worth it, because the birth of a baby is a great joy, but the birth of twins is doubly the joy.
But twin children bring and twice the hassle. So moms and dads, it is very important to know how to develop them and to educate. The twins are very friendly, are always together that has a significant impact on their development. Often kids are so similar to each other that parents are not always able to distinguish between them. Many mothers and fathers wear them equally, raise them as a single unit, but this approach is fundamentally wrong.
Features of parenting twins
A single mom is difficult to care for two newborns, so part of the Pope will not be superfluous. It can help with everything, except, of course, breastfeeding. Dad can swaddle, walk with the twins and play with them, allowing the mother to relax.
From an early age try to teach kids to day regimen and maintain a certain feeding schedule. To bathe the children need on a daily basis, but do it at the same time is unlikely to succeed. Therefore, divide the responsibilities. While mom is bathing one child, dad can play with others. Continue reading
Usually in the mind of a parent separated from the love of discipline, as if they were two completely independent phenomena. These parents believe that discipline means punishment (some even spanking). The first thing we must realize to teach a child to be disciplined, to make him feel that you love him: this is the main and most important part of good discipline. If the child feels that the parents are standing behind him, he is really hard to identify with them and their values. If there is no strong, healthy communication with parents, the child responds to the dictates of parents with anger, hostility, resentment. He considers each request or requirement as imposed on him the duty and learns to actively resist. In the most severe cases, he viewed them with disgust, does everything out of spite, right the contrary. Only healthy, based on the unconditional love of parents and children can help to overcome all life’s crises. Another important aspect of appropriate love – the ability to carefully and intently listen to the child.
When a child is sure that you understand his feelings,thoughts, desires, he will be much more willing to respond to your discipline requirements.Nothing to the extent not irritating Continue reading