What to do if child eats breast milk?

What most often nursing mother thinks when she hears the cry of a newborn baby? Most likely, this: “Poor thing, he is hungry!” And running towards him, eager to satisfy this first instinctive need of a little helpless creatures. It was thousands of years before us, is and always will be.

Banal story

Unfortunately, not always the modern woman turns to feed the baby to the full, say, “excellent”. For example, a typical situation. A baby crying almost non-stop, before feeding restless and near the breast naughty. And his mom told that the child eats breast milk. In fact, the mother is basically saying: “Your child is still hungry, you need to urgently seek to solve something”. But how so? Why the child does not have enough milk? Got any mother’s heart falter.

And starts the inevitable: the search for the causes of half-starved children living-being, feelings of guilt and self-torture. And the conclusion, most often, mom does like this: “I’m a bad nurse, my Breasts are “non-dairy”, the kid need to save is an urgent need to Supplement with formula or even to feed from a bottle!”

Now this happens very often. And it’s a shame that mothers easier to believe in the word of so-called “experts”, to stop breast feeding and put the baby to feed from a nipple. And what would be better in this case? Only, the mother – to pull myself Continue reading

The relationship between husband and wife?

“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”

What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?

The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.

So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?

Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.

But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.

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Advice for parents – What to do with children this summer?

Every child is looking forward to the summer. However for parents, summer is another headache in search of an answer to the question “what to do with children in the summer”. To spend all three months at the computer or TV is not a good idea. So easy to lose received a year of knowledge and skills. Discuss options that will help them to multiply and to spend the summer with benefit.

1. Holidays at sea. Many families go in summer to the South in order to relax and recuperate. However, this trip does not solve the problem of employment of your child during free time. It is unlikely he will be thrilled with passive beach holiday or idle pastime at the hotel. You should ensure that the program your holiday present interesting excursions, recreational activities, etc. the best option is the choice of accommodation, which among other things offers regular cultural and entertainment programs for children.

2. Stay in the country. Country house – is not only a detachment from everyday life in a secluded place alone with the blooming nature. This is an opportunity to bring a child to work. Continue reading

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Computer games for kids
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