What most often nursing mother thinks when she hears the cry of a newborn baby? Most likely, this: “Poor thing, he is hungry!” And running towards him, eager to satisfy this first instinctive need of a little helpless creatures. It was thousands of years before us, is and always will be.
Unfortunately, not always the modern woman turns to feed the baby to the full, say, “excellent”. For example, a typical situation. A baby crying almost non-stop, before feeding restless and near the breast naughty. And his mom told that the child eats breast milk. In fact, the mother is basically saying: “Your child is still hungry, you need to urgently seek to solve something”. But how so? Why the child does not have enough milk? Got any mother’s heart falter.
And starts the inevitable: the search for the causes of half-starved children living-being, feelings of guilt and self-torture. And the conclusion, most often, mom does like this: “I’m a bad nurse, my Breasts are “non-dairy”, the kid need to save is an urgent need to Supplement with formula or even to feed from a bottle!”
Now this happens very often. And it’s a shame that mothers easier to believe in the word of so-called “experts”, to stop breast feeding and put the baby to feed from a nipple. And what would be better in this case? Only, the mother – to pull myself Continue reading
Some will immediately say “over”, referring to the fact that computer games contribute to the development of the child. However, “developing character” computer games — just another myth. That develop these games? Reaction speed, attention? Yes. And what does this have to the goals of education? Of course, if we reduce education to the development of mental processes, then the computer quite this helps. Then don’t grumble, if the output corresponding to “product” with the developed reaction rate. If the goal of education is understood as cultivating spiritual maturity, what does the rate of reaction?
It is, of course, not about the dangers of computer which is really necessary in our lives. No, we are talking about the abuse, about the transformation tool, technical tools in the subject of dependency and addiction.
Dependence on any subject of passion (especially from PC) is called additive syndrome. I will not dwell on clinical cases of computer addiction (blurred vision, General physical development, dystonia). Incidentally, the famous Continue reading
Proper upbringing of the child boy is based on the peculiarities of its development, other than development of girls. It is necessary to consider the parents, as this will depend much later in life your son. It is very important to educate boys
In its development the boys go through three basic stages.
The first stage covers the period from birth to 6 years of age: the age at which the boy is the most developed psychological connection with her mother. This “her” boy, even if the father’s role in a child’s life is also high. Aim of education in this period is a big boy love and a feeling of complete security.
The second stage lasts from 6 to 14 years. During this period, the boy learns to be a man, eyeing father, to his interests and actions. The goal of education in this period: an increase of knowledge, development of creative abilities. We should not forget about the kindness and sincerity – that is, try to cultivate a harmonious personality.
In the third period – from 14 to adulthood – the boy needed an example of male teachers. Parents go by the wayside, but they should provide a worthy son of a mentor to his seat incompetent peer. The purpose of education at this stage is to teach responsibility and self-respect, actively pulling the teenager into adulthood. The main criteria in the selection of teachers Continue reading