“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
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Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading
With the advent of your child’s life there comes a happy time of joys and concerns. What would be to see the world baby depends on its parents. And it’s not just in education, but in an environment where the child lives and grows. To make a child’s room should be treated with special attention. In this simple case it is necessary to consider not only your taste and the interior of the whole house, but also some features that sometimes play a decisive role in whether your baby cozy and comfy in his room.
In the nursery it is necessary to care not only about the fact that it was all necessary and appropriate to the child’s age, but that it was well lit by daylight and intensively ventilated.
All your child has to match his height and age, so it unaided could sit on a chair to retrieve a toy, remove and hang your towel and clothes.
But items such as a lamp, a switch, a carafe or a pitcher of water, should be placed so that the child has not yet learned to use these items, it was impossible to get them.
Arranging the baby’s room, make sure that everything that surrounds your children, was not only sturdy, clean and hygienic, but also beautiful. Continue reading