She’s wrong, I grew up on computer games since 7 years, and still play. Mental all right, friends and family don’t complain))) Live in a happy marriage, attitude to life is positive, in General I full happy people and don’t remember periods in my life, that game to me than it prevented. On the contrary, in his childhood when friends walked through the basement and learned to smoke, their society, I wasn’t interested and it seemed mundane. Computer games are good and a very common hobby in the modern world and for the past generation new, strange and not clear, like all unknown. To deny it or to prevent the child from playing just because smart aunt (which the game never played and not familiar with this phenomenon) said, it’s stupid, anyway, if the child shows interest in games, he’s come to love will find a way where, what and with whom to play. Do not judge strictly this phenomenon, there is nothing terrible, this is the modern world and this is absolutely normal, Continue reading
Music is an integral part of our lives. For centuries the mother sang a lullaby to the child, etc. Usually parents want their children listened to music, played it, but on the other hand, it is a natural desire begets in them a number of doubts. They are confident that their child will be able, for example, to learn to sing that he has musical talent. Music should be an integral part of human existence, including the life of a child. But on the way to this goal, there are certain difficulties: requires the presence of talent or at least the propensity for music, and a child should learn to enjoy music.
Interestingly, sometimes the child gets more pleasure from playing music of their peers than older professionals. The pleasure derived from music is perceived not only aurally and emotionally, but also muscular.
Currently there are many ways to practice music and to get pleasure from listening to it that don’t require much money or much time.
The child responds to music and he makes musical sounds. He makes rhythmic movements to the beat of the sounds of a refrigerator or a washing machine. Young children often free to experiment with sound, as with everything else that they can see, taste and touch. Continue reading
Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading