Many young mothers are faced with the same problem. They are away from baby Cribs, to prepare Breakfast. to freshen up, clean the apartment, both from the nursery starts to reach a disgruntled whimper. Soon the discontent go into a silent cry, which then develop into unrestrained scream. How to respond to such discontent kid? How to handle it? How to stop being nervous and rid the child from such unrestrained weeping?
Our mothers and grandmothers rather philosophically treated like cry baby. They believed that if the baby cries, it means he is developing. During the Creek are actively developing lungs. Consequently, when the training of the internal organs is over, your baby will stop crying.
However, modern medicine puts forward other hypotheses. Today it is considered, if the child is crying, so he asks you for help, so he feels uncomfortable. As psychologists say. Parents need to respond to every cry baby. Don’t be afraid to spoil your child. Up to one year to spoil it impossible. You will either develop his confidence in his own defense, or create a field around the baby fear, when he will understand that in the moment of danger to him no one would answer. If you are attentive parents, then over time you will Continue reading
How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.
And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.
Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.
So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.
1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others Continue reading
The origins of greed should be sought, primarily, in educational methods dads and moms. Let’s look at how we need to educate the greedy man that child became a kind person.
As growing children greed is a manifestation of the greed of the child at different stages of age
The unwillingness to share their toys, clothes and even food notice your kids many parents. Often mothers have to blush for their crumbs in the house or on the Playground when a small screaming meanie peers “will Not give!” and hides behind a shovel or a machine. Or hiding my toys from my brother (sister), categorically not wanting to share things even “not for long, just play”. What are the reasons?
1.5 to 3 years. At this age the concept of “own/alien” the baby has not yet formed. Because now the child belongs to the whole observable world.
2 years kid have consciously utters the word “mine!” and stop talking about yourself, your favorite, in the 3rd person. This means that began the first serious stage of psychological development of the child. Now he forms a picture of himself and begins to establish the boundaries separating the “ours” and “theirs”. The word “mine” from a child is a sign of personal space, including all that expensive baby. This is a natural process Continue reading