How to live with the unloved husband, and is it worth it?

Yes, unfortunately, it also happens that after some time in marriage, the woman suddenly realizes that the stranger next to her and unloved people. Why is this happening – who knows? Sometimes the reason for the disappearance of love is a series of disappointments, sometimes inflicted by the husband resentment, and sometimes it’s just not explainable loss of interest in his own half. But the fact remains, – the love is gone. And well, if a woman will accept this fact with the inherent weaker sex natural wisdom. Then she will be ready for it and will try to keep peace in the family and friendly towards their partner. However, not all have enough strength to such an act. Some of the women breaks the marriage bond, and someone continues to live with the unloved person, and secretly tormented sobbing into my pillow at night.

Strongly of unloved men usually women self-sufficient, self-confident. They prefer to be alone, but not to live with those who are nothing but animosity, not causes. Women are weak, vulnerable, sometimes very deeply suffering, don’t want to risk it. Let unloved, hateful, but all the same husband, the man who is always there. They’re just afraid that you will not be able to create a pretty solid new relationship with a man. Who is right?

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Create the child his nook for games and creativity.

Probably all the parents to tell the child there and mess, this is typical of young children. At the same time they need in an orderly world, and you have them help. For starters trace, how many flats toddler loves to play and equip a children’s corner. In every house there are a gathering place for all family members because it is necessary for the child in the living room or kitchen to create their own space. But this is not to say that we need toys to fill up all the living room, the game should only occur on a limited for kid space. Let it be a table and chair, adults are nearby and the child feels among adults comfortably, although engaged in the business.

The child grows, and thus his self-esteem grows, he realizes that his presence is important for adults, but these are the corners around the apartment a real salvation for parents. If desired, you can create such an area in the house no one – it sports with Swedish ladder and rings, building with blocks and designer of cookware in the kitchen. While mom is preparing to eat, the child with pleasure will be engaged in preparing food for dolls. Could be a reading area with a child seat floor lamp and a book shelf, where after watching the baby books they’ll deliver.

Special attention should be given to the area for creativity.

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Children’s drawings can tell the psychologist about the internal experiences of the child. The child gives the paper their feelings, their thoughts, their experiences. Figure 9-year-old Andrew, who is called “My family”, says a lot. Immediately struck by the fact that in a family where three children in the picture all apart. Everyone does their job.

And most importantly — do not see a single person. My dad saucepans and mother lingers in social networks in front of the computer. Children, and those everyone is busy with his business. For example, Andrei himself is the oldest of three children pictured in front of a computer screen, by the way his face is not visible to the viewer, and the two playing on the floor kids turned away from each other, probably, also do not want to interact.

This is a child’s view on his family. In conversation, the boy tells about what mom and dad almost never talk and don’t embrace that they are always sad and angry, or fighting with each other. And they have little time to play with the kids.

I think parents are burdened not only with our actions but also their relationship, or rather their “no relationship”. They have a lot of grievances and complaints that absorb Continue reading

Child and music

Music is an integral part of our lives. For centuries the mother sang a lullaby to the child, etc. Usually parents want their children listened to music, played it, but on the other hand, it is a natural desire begets in them a number of doubts. They are confident that their child will be able, for example, to learn to sing that he has musical talent. Music should be an integral part of human existence, including the life of a child. But on the way to this goal, there are certain difficulties: requires the presence of talent or at least the propensity for music, and a child should learn to enjoy music.

Interestingly, sometimes the child gets more pleasure from playing music of their peers than older professionals. The pleasure derived from music is perceived not only aurally and emotionally, but also muscular.

Currently there are many ways to practice music and to get pleasure from listening to it that don’t require much money or much time.

The child responds to music and he makes musical sounds. He makes rhythmic movements to the beat of the sounds of a refrigerator or a washing machine. Young children often free to experiment with sound, as with everything else that they can see, taste and touch. Continue reading

The relationship between husband and wife?

“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”

What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?

The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.

So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?

Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.

But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.

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