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Parents and children

How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.

And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.

Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.

So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.

1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others Continue reading

What is the suggestion

The essence of the suggestion is that in the subconscious or in your own subconscious mind is called specific performance. In this way you can affect their own feelings, at will, in their critical abilities.

The more and stronger the idea, the easier it is to impose it to another person and the longer will be its action.

If you call such a state in another person, we are talking about the suggestion of a third person, if of itself — we call it autosuggestion.

However, the suggestion of another person, to become effective, must first be included in our understanding and thereby to be converted into self-hypnosis. In other words, any suggestion one way or another — self-hypnosis.

The processes of the subconscious

Thus, we fix: suggestion never happens on a conscious level, it can be effective only if by auto-suggestion, it will be converted into a visible representation. All processes are the essence of hypnosis is the result of suggestion or autosuggestion.

One scholar has taught several subjects that they drank a liter of fluid, although they are actually not drank a single drop. However, almost all allocated per liter of urine more than normal. This experiment shows how deeply ingrained under hypnosis representation penetrates into the functions of our body.

At first, a figurative representation, and then follows the execution. Continue reading

The Causes of disobedience

Usually in the mind of a parent separated from the love of discipline, as if they were two completely independent phenomena. These parents believe that discipline means punishment (some even spanking). The first thing we must realize to teach a child to be disciplined, to make him feel that you love him: this is the main and most important part of good discipline. If the child feels that the parents are standing behind him, he is really hard to identify with them and their values. If there is no strong, healthy communication with parents, the child responds to the dictates of parents with anger, hostility, resentment. He considers each request or requirement as imposed on him the duty and learns to actively resist. In the most severe cases, he viewed them with disgust, does everything out of spite, right the contrary. Only healthy, based on the unconditional love of parents and children can help to overcome all life’s crises. Another important aspect of appropriate love – the ability to carefully and intently listen to the child.

When a child is sure that you understand his feelings,thoughts, desires, he will be much more willing to respond to your discipline requirements.Nothing to the extent not irritating Continue reading

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