Probably all the parents to tell the child there and mess, this is typical of young children. At the same time they need in an orderly world, and you have them help. For starters trace, how many flats toddler loves to play and equip a children’s corner. In every house there are a gathering place for all family members because it is necessary for the child in the living room or kitchen to create their own space. But this is not to say that we need toys to fill up all the living room, the game should only occur on a limited for kid space. Let it be a table and chair, adults are nearby and the child feels among adults comfortably, although engaged in the business.
The child grows, and thus his self-esteem grows, he realizes that his presence is important for adults, but these are the corners around the apartment a real salvation for parents. If desired, you can create such an area in the house no one – it sports with Swedish ladder and rings, building with blocks and designer of cookware in the kitchen. While mom is preparing to eat, the child with pleasure will be engaged in preparing food for dolls. Could be a reading area with a child seat floor lamp and a book shelf, where after watching the baby books they’ll deliver.
Special attention should be given to the area for creativity.
Children’s drawings can tell the psychologist about the internal experiences of the child. The child gives the paper their feelings, their thoughts, their experiences. Figure 9-year-old Andrew, who is called “My family”, says a lot. Immediately struck by the fact that in a family where three children in the picture all apart. Everyone does their job.
And most importantly — do not see a single person. My dad saucepans and mother lingers in social networks in front of the computer. Children, and those everyone is busy with his business. For example, Andrei himself is the oldest of three children pictured in front of a computer screen, by the way his face is not visible to the viewer, and the two playing on the floor kids turned away from each other, probably, also do not want to interact.
This is a child’s view on his family. In conversation, the boy tells about what mom and dad almost never talk and don’t embrace that they are always sad and angry, or fighting with each other. And they have little time to play with the kids.
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“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
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