“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
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Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading
Every child is looking forward to the summer. However for parents, summer is another headache in search of an answer to the question “what to do with children in the summer”. To spend all three months at the computer or TV is not a good idea. So easy to lose received a year of knowledge and skills. Discuss options that will help them to multiply and to spend the summer with benefit.
1. Holidays at sea. Many families go in summer to the South in order to relax and recuperate. However, this trip does not solve the problem of employment of your child during free time. It is unlikely he will be thrilled with passive beach holiday or idle pastime at the hotel. You should ensure that the program your holiday present interesting excursions, recreational activities, etc. the best option is the choice of accommodation, which among other things offers regular cultural and entertainment programs for children.
2. Stay in the country. Country house – is not only a detachment from everyday life in a secluded place alone with the blooming nature. This is an opportunity to bring a child to work. Continue reading