Yes, unfortunately, it also happens that after some time in marriage, the woman suddenly realizes that the stranger next to her and unloved people. Why is this happening – who knows? Sometimes the reason for the disappearance of love is a series of disappointments, sometimes inflicted by the husband resentment, and sometimes it’s just not explainable loss of interest in his own half. But the fact remains, – the love is gone. And well, if a woman will accept this fact with the inherent weaker sex natural wisdom. Then she will be ready for it and will try to keep peace in the family and friendly towards their partner. However, not all have enough strength to such an act. Some of the women breaks the marriage bond, and someone continues to live with the unloved person, and secretly tormented sobbing into my pillow at night.
Strongly of unloved men usually women self-sufficient, self-confident. They prefer to be alone, but not to live with those who are nothing but animosity, not causes. Women are weak, vulnerable, sometimes very deeply suffering, don’t want to risk it. Let unloved, hateful, but all the same husband, the man who is always there. They’re just afraid that you will not be able to create a pretty solid new relationship with a man. Who is right?
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Children’s drawings can tell the psychologist about the internal experiences of the child. The child gives the paper their feelings, their thoughts, their experiences. Figure 9-year-old Andrew, who is called “My family”, says a lot. Immediately struck by the fact that in a family where three children in the picture all apart. Everyone does their job.
And most importantly — do not see a single person. My dad saucepans and mother lingers in social networks in front of the computer. Children, and those everyone is busy with his business. For example, Andrei himself is the oldest of three children pictured in front of a computer screen, by the way his face is not visible to the viewer, and the two playing on the floor kids turned away from each other, probably, also do not want to interact.
This is a child’s view on his family. In conversation, the boy tells about what mom and dad almost never talk and don’t embrace that they are always sad and angry, or fighting with each other. And they have little time to play with the kids.
I think parents are burdened not only with our actions but also their relationship, or rather their “no relationship”. They have a lot of grievances and complaints that absorb Continue reading
“Marriage is a relationship between husband and wife, where the independence of both parties is equal, the dependence mutual and the obligation reciprocal.”
What is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?
The relationship between husband and wife are in the system of family relations adult, marital subsystem. And as in every system, one subsystem affects another, because they are all interrelated.
So the answer to the question “what is the impact on children, the relationship between husband and wife?” is simple: “the Most direct way! Directly!”. Another question – how exactly are affected?
Taking as a basis the statement L. N. Tolstoy’s “All happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”, say that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife are having a positive impact on relationships with children, and the relationship between children with each other.
But unhappy, conflictual relationship between husband and wife negatively affect parent-child relationships, and create friction in the relationship with the children both inside and outside the family, do not allow them to adequately adapt in society.
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