Child rearing is often perceived by parents as improvement of its quality, character and conduct. Although actually, the education of children is, first of all, the education itself. When the child grows, it begins to resist those demands, which the parents do not adhere to. A simple example: many parents forbid their children to smoke themselves and can not live a day without a cigarette. That is why, raising a child, it is important to begin to change your life, abandoning bad habits, lewd behavior and other “harmful”.
The process of raising children is work on yourself
What qualities should parents cultivate, to foster a harmonious, decent and loving children?
Patience. This is the most important quality of a good parent. Without patience it is impossible to perceive any crying infant toddler nor the whims of a teenager. If patience is not enough, quarrels, scandals and cries with your own child is the usual cause.
Don’t forget that patience from parents depends on mental and physical health of the child.When the child “hear” and “listen to” adult – he’s happy. But in order to “hear” you must be balanced and calm, no matter how you’re feeling and how the day went. Too emotional mom dad or blast is not the best example for a growing person. Continue reading
“it is Fair to impose on God’s hope for yourself and the children, but this does not preclude careful attention to how children to lead better, and duties vigilantly to supervise them. The love of parents to children must not operate independently but under the guidance of wisdom” . “the Father and mother do I need a feat to love her child? Baby whether one must learn to love your father and mother? If this love makes all nature, without the feat, and almost without the knowledge of man: where’s the dignity of virtue? This is just a natural feeling and in dumb primecell. Neljubljene parents or children have a deeply low defect; but the love of parents or children is not yet high virtue, except on special occasions, when it exalts United with her selflessness and sacrifice” . “Sensitive and loving heart ought to elevate from the love of natural to spiritual to it, plunging into family connection, not quite mired in one of the natural love” . And therefore, “believing the source of goodness in God and His blessing, or have received, and hope the good that we wish,” ought “to elevate and sanctify the works of nature with the spirit of grace, to celebrate the birth of children not only with joyful Continue reading
The education of girls for centuries and millennia was due a lot of taboos and prejudices. According to surveys, mothers of girls is much less than mothers of boys tend to pedagogic experiments, at least in their early physical and intellectual development, not actively interested in contemporary trends in pedagogy.
The world through the eyes of girls
Get rid of the idea that boys and girls is the same thing that the male is always better than women or that men thoroughly wrong that women — a mistake of nature that being a representative of one of the sexes is better than the other, because one Paul kinder, smarter, nicer, stronger, more educated, witty, rational or weaker than another, that some are easier to educate, and to deal with other more difficult and so on and so forth.
We can’t properly comprehend what girls, because our society denies their features, suggesting that women should behave like men. Requirement immediately puts girls and women in an unequal position in society where they are judged by the extent to which they achieved independence, i.e. the ability vigorously Continue reading