Yes, unfortunately, it also happens that after some time in marriage, the woman suddenly realizes that the stranger next to her and unloved people. Why is this happening – who knows? Sometimes the reason for the disappearance of love is a series of disappointments, sometimes inflicted by the husband resentment, and sometimes it’s just not explainable loss of interest in his own half. But the fact remains, – the love is gone. And well, if a woman will accept this fact with the inherent weaker sex natural wisdom. Then she will be ready for it and will try to keep peace in the family and friendly towards their partner. However, not all have enough strength to such an act. Some of the women breaks the marriage bond, and someone continues to live with the unloved person, and secretly tormented sobbing into my pillow at night.
Strongly of unloved men usually women self-sufficient, self-confident. They prefer to be alone, but not to live with those who are nothing but animosity, not causes. Women are weak, vulnerable, sometimes very deeply suffering, don’t want to risk it. Let unloved, hateful, but all the same husband, the man who is always there. They’re just afraid that you will not be able to create a pretty solid new relationship with a man. Who is right?
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Probably all the parents to tell the child there and mess, this is typical of young children. At the same time they need in an orderly world, and you have them help. For starters trace, how many flats toddler loves to play and equip a children’s corner. In every house there are a gathering place for all family members because it is necessary for the child in the living room or kitchen to create their own space. But this is not to say that we need toys to fill up all the living room, the game should only occur on a limited for kid space. Let it be a table and chair, adults are nearby and the child feels among adults comfortably, although engaged in the business.
The child grows, and thus his self-esteem grows, he realizes that his presence is important for adults, but these are the corners around the apartment a real salvation for parents. If desired, you can create such an area in the house no one – it sports with Swedish ladder and rings, building with blocks and designer of cookware in the kitchen. While mom is preparing to eat, the child with pleasure will be engaged in preparing food for dolls. Could be a reading area with a child seat floor lamp and a book shelf, where after watching the baby books they’ll deliver.
Special attention should be given to the area for creativity.
Children’s drawings can tell the psychologist about the internal experiences of the child. The child gives the paper their feelings, their thoughts, their experiences. Figure 9-year-old Andrew, who is called “My family”, says a lot. Immediately struck by the fact that in a family where three children in the picture all apart. Everyone does their job.
And most importantly — do not see a single person. My dad saucepans and mother lingers in social networks in front of the computer. Children, and those everyone is busy with his business. For example, Andrei himself is the oldest of three children pictured in front of a computer screen, by the way his face is not visible to the viewer, and the two playing on the floor kids turned away from each other, probably, also do not want to interact.
This is a child’s view on his family. In conversation, the boy tells about what mom and dad almost never talk and don’t embrace that they are always sad and angry, or fighting with each other. And they have little time to play with the kids.
I think parents are burdened not only with our actions but also their relationship, or rather their “no relationship”. They have a lot of grievances and complaints that absorb Continue reading