The child forms not only the environment, but also other days of the week…
Three-year-old daughter of my friend recently asked an interesting question: “Mom, what is a Viper?” “Advanced” mom, the teacher of geography, pricked “advanced” question curious Chad, found on the Internet pictures, videos, interesting facts on the biology of snakes, and began to tell the young off that pet shop Dame, who are the vipers. The answer was absolutely puzzled glance – something mom says. And in the evening, treating dolls from toy dishes, babe hard banged his hand on a small table: “come, be silent, Viper! Quickly eat!” Parents in horror looked at each other for a wee week in kindergarten and has already begun to adopt aggressive behavior “good” educator.
…Talking with a neighbor near the entrance. Her son, four-year-old toddler Vlad, running in the yard next. Enough plastic blocks, swings at my mom: “This is the bomb! Now I will throw, and you will scatter!” I pretend to not notice anything. Although it is strange that modern children even cubes, toy creation, building, turns into a weapon. And it gets worse. Vladka took the girl doll, broke down the doll’s leg and is about to throw in the fire, which here, in the yard, bred Continue reading
Many children go through a period between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication,
often only the expression of one or another of his condition, for example: “I am angry” or “I want this.” Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, children tend to resort to using his fists or sharp teeth.
Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, may turn into real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
If you see your child, not yet begun to walk to school, hit another, first go to his sacrifice. Raise a hurt child and say, “Igor didn’t mean to offend you.” Then hug him, kiss and spend out of the room. Thus you deprive Continue reading